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The Herpes Talk

Because of the fact that some people tend to over exaggerate what herpes is. Some people will never really learn what herpes is about and some will be more afraid of the person who has one. It really is a nasty disease that affects lots of people who are not safely practicing sex. We sometimes act like evil persons when we say he deserves it anyway for being immoral. But that is not the right way to do it. Instead we should be helping them out and help inform others as well about herpes truth.

One situation to consider is when one of the partners has herpes. Eventually they will have to make love and one partner will have to voice out his disease. It will be unfair to the other partner to be infected without his or her knowledge. It is best to face the consequences of your previous actions. Just try to open up to him or her about your disease. Here is the best way to talk to your partner about your situation. It might be best though to find a woman who has herpes too, to prevent the talk.

There’s something I have to tell you that is important, but I promise you is not that scary. When telling this, don’t try acting like a serial killer or your partner might freak out before you even reach the herpes part.

In my previous relationship, she was not a monogamous person when it cam to her sex life. Eventually she contacted a disease that when we were making love, I was bale to contact the virus as well.

I don’t know if your familiar with the herpes virus, but I would like to tell you that this virus will always be a part of me now. By making love to me there is chance that I might transmit the virus to you, even though I take medications to prevent the transfer. There is no way to get rid of it, but I take medications to suppress it.

The research I’ve done says that by taking medication, the risk will be cut down to 3-4 percent. But there will always be a risk. Some people don’t even know they have herpes and I am thankful that I have this virus so that I can deal with it without spreading the disease to those I love.

I really like you a lot and I don’t want you to get infected. That’s why I told you my disease, so that we can have two options to deal with. You can either leave me and I’ll respect your decision or I’ll give you more time to learn more about this stuff. I don’t expect much from you, since it is I who will be mostly gaining from this. Thank you for understanding my point of view.

A person who is able to give you this talk is certainly worth giving a lot of respect. Not lots of people will be willing to expose themselves to others as this may cause discrimination. Sometimes it is better to date a person who has openly told you about his history about the disease rather than dating someone who is not willing to open up. This increases your chance for the disease as well.

If you have herpes and you are having problem finding a date. There’s a website that helps out people with herpes. It’s just like a dating service for people with herpes and it’s exclusive for people who have herpes only. At least in their website, the chances of you getting shut down because of herpes are very minimal.